When my sister gets together with her friends and my name comes up she always makes a comment on how I should write a book about "How Breast cancer spiced up my marriage". Now I know that the majority especially you ladies who are now going through surgery and then chemo are thinking this woman is totally out of her mind and who does she think she is? 

Well I know how you feel. 

I was petrified when I found the lump in my breast. I was petrified when I had a lumpectomy and then came the mastectomy and then chemo and hair loss and sickness and on and on and on... I had nicked named myself "Freakazoid"  because I was so pathetic looking. I had to try to do some laughing you know. Well you are probably wondering....  ok what are you getting at?  I just want to tell you how I got through it and that now after three years of being cancer free I want to tell you a few tricks of the trade that I have been using...    continue